Turn off notifications, set aside a block of time to go through it all at once and respond to the good stuff. I have blown more openings and meetings than I've landed successfully. All that said, what do I think of it? Select One man woman. They'll spend maybe 20 mins a week on it and not respond to any message at all. Turns out there was only one man—The One—who fit the bill. Having gone into online dating without a lot of experience and most of them bad, using it to find my way was absolutely worth it and is up there with one of the better decisions of my life.
Why are we so hesitant to believe that online dating can work?
Is Online Dating Worth It?
I use online dating because it's significantly less effort than trying to meet someone offline. So it works sometimes. Fuck that noise. I have a hard time trusting anybody from online. Perhaps that sounds naive or oversimplified. The internet allows you to get to know thousands of people around the world.